Monday, May 25, 2026 at 7:00 PM
Skylight Books, Los Angeles
 CLICK HERE TO RSVP _**RSVP is recommended but not required. Entry and seating are first-come, first-served. RSVPs do not guarantee entry to a full event.**_ **A profound and illuminating exploration of the mythology of gay uncles and the meaning of queer bonds across generations** In _Say Nephew_, Steven Pfau blends memoir and criticism to celebrate the gay uncles who shape our sense of queer identity, culture, and history. The most influential figure in Pfau’s gay boyhood—the mentor who set the standard for all his future mentors—was his uncle Bruce. A charismatic storyteller with a Burt Reynolds–esque bravado (and a mustache, leather jacket, and pair of cowboy boots to match), Bruce came out in 1950s Memphis and lived in New York City through many of the defining events of the gay liberation era. Bruce was both a unique fixture in his nephew’s upbringing and a link in a long lineage of uncles, literal and figurative, who have offered various forms of queer tutelage to younger men. But what role is the nephew supposed to play in these relationships? And who does he become once his uncles are no longer there to guide him? Both a coming-of-age story and a wide-ranging study, _Say Nephew_ is a wholly original and expansive consideration of queer mentorship. **STEVEN PFAU** is a writer and editor based in Los Angeles. He graduated from the University of Idaho’s MFA program, and his work has appeared in _DIAGRAM, Guernica, The Iowa Review, The Offing, Passages North_, and other publications.